This is a place dedicated to those who have experienced infidelity. Those who have been the victim of it. Oh how I hate that word. Victim. Let’s change that to something a little less full of connotation. Those who have been the receivers of infidelity. And, yes, it is also open to those who have committed the acts of infidelity. It is only fair that you have a place to voice your thoughts. To possibly help us understand the workings of your mind and heart. It is for those who have recovered and moved on, alone. It’s for those who have recovered and become stronger as a couple. And for those who still struggle in its aftermath, in that horrible desecrated landscape of what we thought life was before forced to face the reality of what it is. Because the truth of infidelity is that it removes us, at least for a time, from the world as we know it, and slams us into an alien world. And at the end of the day, regardless of where we are in this vast spectrum of infidelity, once you have visited that alien world, you are changed. Maybe you’re stronger, maybe wiser, maybe you’re bitter, maybe less open. For good or for bad we are all changed and having visited that alien world we all have one thing in common…….. We have experienced the visit.